It has been two weeks and still I can’t decide how to write a final blog post for my trip. What could possibly be enough? What could do justice to this experience?
I’ve decided to go back to this collection of thoughts I spilled out in the airport. Describing how I felt then is as honest as I can be, and honesty has been one of my biggest goals for this blog. I was a bundle of emotions. I always am when I know I’m in the midst of a big change. For me, those are the moments I have to write.
Here I am in the Warsaw airport. And it’s hitting me. It’s hitting me like I knew it would, but in a way I couldn’t anticipate.
I have no right to be sad. I get to spend the next nine days traveling with my boyfriend and his sister. And God, I am so excited to see them in a few hours. It adds so much to this mess of emotions.
But then I see the photos my host mom tagged me in on Facebook. And I realize that is how I will be seeing my roommate, friends, and host family from now on. Through a little screen.
I go to order my food and my instinct is to say “bonjour,” but I cut myself short and say hello instead. My French is useless here.
I realize with a pang that my French is only going to get worse until the next time, if and when, I live in France. I want to write this whole blog in French, I want to hear the bubbling vowels come out of mouths all around me.
I pick Paul’s for lunch out of some sad nostalgia. I only ever eat it in airports, and I almost never ate it when I was actually in France.
I sort of want to cry, partially out of relief that I finally made it here. It was a hairy travel morning to say the least. But it’s not sadness or stress that gives me that feeling, it’s just feeling so many emotions at once. I bet I’ll cry when I see Sam.
I have to cling onto and breathe into the one emotion that’s the most important. The one that I feel the most deep, deep down; gratitude.
I hold onto it like a life raft and it pulls me up like a balloon.
I’m grateful for the chance to spend four months in Paris. Finances, safety, college credit all come into play and could’ve ruined my plans. In a different situation, time period, with a different major, it might not have been possible.
I’m thankful for parents who were excited for me since the idea arose. Come to think of it I don’t remember ever really asking, because I knew what the answer would be.
I’m thankful for host parents and siblings who made me feel at home in the simplest and most meaningful ways: calling us “mes filles” (my girls), assuring us no matter what happens “il y a toujours une solution” (there is always a solution), and never missing a chance to joke around with us.
I’m thankful to have a roommate who not only did I get along with, but who after four months I consider one of my closest friends. Simple as that.
I’m thankful for every friend I made in my program, for staff who helped us endlessly, for kind professors, and for smiling classmates.
I’m thankful that I get to go home to so many people I love. People who shared in my excitement, even though coming here meant I’d be away from them.
I’m thankful home, both in Columbus and Pittsburgh, is a place I look forward to going back to.
I’m thankful for the challenges, the lessons, and the joys that France brought me. I may have opted out of getting a tattoo, but Paris will have its name stamped on my heart.
I could go on and on, but for me gratefulness is kind of like a prayer or meditation, and sometimes when you pray it’s better to just be quiet. Because otherwise my brain and my heart may burst. And I need those to carry me through my next journey.